Mama's Baby, Daddy's Maybe!

There are days like this where I really sit back in a corner and shake my head! I can't and don't understand a lot of the times why my children have to act the way they do but I still love them. What makes me even madder is that fact that while they are at school and at home acting up the dad is not around. I have to deal with the rudeness, disrepect, phone calls from teachers, temper tantrums, and definace while he gets a free ride and do nothing. THEN he wants to call and tell me everything that I am not doing right or could do better, REALLY? Negro your not even here so what gives you the right to tell me anything and then on top of that not helping me physically, mentally, or emotionally. In all actuality he is hurting the situation more than he is helping it.

My apologies if I seem like I was rambling. I just don't like when the mother is always there doing what she need to do for her kids and the dad gets a free ride when he is not there or not paying his child support to help. It is not all gravy when raising a child or children by yourself. The ONLY thing that has gotten me through all of this is the foundation of Christ that I have in me and my children's lives. I would not be here today if it was not for God loving me and giving me mercy and grace.

Finally.....I hear women with one or two kids complaining on how hard it is and yes it just may be that but if I can make it with five children by myself then I know you can make it!!!!! Just make God first in your life because he will be the only one who can lead and guide you through it all!